gooping it up
Thursday, November 13
Gwyneth Paltrow hosted a GOOP party last night at the Chateau Marmont (the penthouse, of course), with the invite calling for cocktail attire. In true LA fashion, that translated to a mix of jeans, leather jackets, and the occasional silk dress. Chalk it up to the 5PM start time—or the reality of navigating Hollywood traffic straight from the day’s to-dos. Still, everyone looked great in that easy, unfussy way LA does best. Denim dressed up with heels, leather jackets (lots of leather, pretty much in this ONE brand!), and just enough polish to make it feel special without trying too hard. I opted for a Gwyn blazer (naturally), a Chloe blouse, my usual Madewell jeans, this Aureum statement belt, and Chanel patent-leather pumps. Other day-to-night pieces that would have made the cut, all below: the Charvet x Chanel inspired And Other Stories silk tuxedo blouse, the pinstriped Alex Mill (love their new 11/10 vibrant knits, BTW), Zara's suede jacket (yum), and H&M (yes, head-to-toe).
today's gift
Wednesday, November 12
I’ve got two of my dearest—and healthiest—friends in town, staying with me this week: energy healer Jakki Leonardini and wellness coach Sarah Wragge. They’ve turned my house into a high-vibe haven, and I’m so into it. Today’s itinerary is basically my dream “feel-good” LA day: an early-morning outdoor workout in my new Travis Mathew's suck-it-all-in set, above, a long lunch at Leora, cream-topped Maru coffees (because balance), a La Double J trunk show in Beverly Hills with girlfriends, capped off with a GOOP cocktail party at the Chateau Marmont hosted by Gwyneth Paltrow herself. A true gift in every sense. Speaking of gifts, I just polished off my holiday gift guide Substack this morning—packed with the coolest, most covetable finds for everyone on your list (and maybe a few for yourself). You can find it here. Another gift idea: the Designer Sale at Shopbop, on now for three days only. You're welcome!
denim differences
Tuesday, November 11
The other day I spent a few hours meandering around SoHo, hunting for the perfect something, anything—that elusive score just waiting for me in plain sight. When I came back to the apartment, shopping bags in tow, my sister was perched on the sofa, ready for the big reveal. I pulled out my prize, below: a perfectly-fitting pair of winter-white jeans. She blinked. “That’s it?” she asked, confused, a little crestfallen, as if I’d just pulled out, I don't know, a pair of dirty socks. Her reaction stuck with me though (however, it should be said that the satin-y finish elevates these white jeans, just saying, more sizes here!). So lately, I’ve been on a mission to find denim that’s anything but a shrug—pieces that make my sister say that’s super cute--along with their low-key extras. Let's start with Mother Denim's chaps-like jeans, the buttoned-waistband, the corduroy trimmed, and the crazy fringe. Also good: the Roxanne Assoulin chain belt, above, the B-Low The Belt crystal waist-cincher (last pic), these belted Alex Mill jeans, and these embroidered Farm Rio.
alexa chung x madewell
Monday, November 10
A few days ago in New York, I got a sneak peek at the just-launched Alexa Chung for Madewell collection—and even better, I met Alexa herself (effortlessly cool, naturally) wearing this sheer dress and this horsebit link (very vintage Gucci-looking) belt from the line. The collection is a love letter to New York City and Alexa's own treasure-trove of vintage finds: lace-trimmed slips, crisp and truly perfect striped blouses, and easy, borrowed-from-the-boys layers that feel like they've lived a life or two already. It's downtown cool distilled—wearable, timeless, and just the right amount of undone. I love the belt (nearly sold out, of course!), the fringe leather jacket (not too fringe-y!), this classic pea coat, this ribbed-trim sweater, and, all day every day this hooded sweatshirt. Shop the entire collection here!
vesting schedule
Monday, November 10
Throw it on and party! (I'd size up for a looser fit.)
- River Island embellished vest, $133, riverisland.com
- The Frankie Shop trousers, $200, mytheresa.com
- Deepa Gurnani earrings, $98, shopbop.com
- Guerlain customizable lipstick case, $43, nordstrom.com
- Maison d'Etto Eau de Parfum in Vintage Rotano, $150, maisondetto.com
- Simkhai patent leather wedge heels, $525, netaporter.com
dinner with sarah
Friday, November 7
Last night, after a quick meeting at San Vicente West Village, wearing the above, I pulled a quick presto change-o, and went with Coco to dinner at Bar Oliver, a hip, newish Lower East Side spot—the in-demand kind that pre-charges you $75 a head to secure a seat. We walked in feeling excited, suitably dressed, looking for our friend and dinner date Sarah Clary--only to encounter the hostess, who barely looked up from her iPad. We hovered awkwardly, and then, like a scene change, Sarah swanned in--stylist, fashion oracle, and human mood board—wearing a white pillbox hat perched just so, a fuzzy oversized Source Unknown blazer (that's sold out but this one is almost identical), and the kind of calm self-assurance and glowy countenance that parts crowds. Suddenly, the hostess was all warmth and motion, menus appearing, napkins unfolding, our table materializing as if it had been waiting for Sarah all along. Dinner was delicious—the roasted mushrooms were rich and earthy, the pan con tomate perfectly tangy, the big leaf salad a fibrous, green dream. But what I kept devouring, really, was Sarah’s outfit: the texture, the proportion, the way she somehow made “just grabbing dinner” feel cinematic. Sitting across from her, I started mentally dismantling my own wardrobe (though, she did compliment my reversible jacket!), wondering how to inject more drama, more entrance-making energy, more head-turning flair into my life. It’s moments like these that remind me why I’ll never tire of this city: the constant parade of inspiration, the effortless alchemy of New York style. Every street corner, every 8 a.m. coffee line reveals another masterclass in dressing with intent (I spotted this at Gotan this morning). I’m forever taking mental notes—and chasing that same mix of ease and theater. So far today, I’ve come up with this from TWP (I mean...!), this J.Crew (it's truly a Prada-spirited cardigan, Rohe and Zadig & Voltaire. See more for what everyone is wearing in Manhattan, below: these loafers or ballet flats with wool socks, or these new Chanel-inspired patent-leather flats (cleverly sourced by Courtney Grow!), that Fendi fringed bag, pops of red (here and here), and vintage-looking leather jackets. Happy Weekend!
in the bag
Thursday, November 6
Scrolling through my feed this morning, I was transported straight into Liffner’s cocktail party the other night in Manhattan. I could almost hear the hum of chatter, the clink of glasses, the laughter bouncing off marble and mid-century lines. The women—sleek, spirited, utterly New York—were draped in sharp tailoring and understated shine, each look anchored by a bag. Liffner’s creations took center stage: sculptural suede clutches nestled next to slouchy top-handle pouches, gleaming navy croc textures brushing against embossed leather. They didn’t just complete the outfits; they defined them. And maybe that’s the larger story here: bags are having a moment again—but not in that singular, “It bag” kind of way. This time, it’s about personality, shade, mood. The bag as punctuation, as little daily sculpture. It’s the finishing touch but in all shapes and sizes. My current go-to's: this satin Staud (Prada Spring 26 vibes!), this vintage Celine and this 3.1 Phillip Lim (last pic).
dressed for less
Thursday, November 6
I love how easy (and relatively inexpensive!) it's going to be to get dressed for some upcoming festivities! I snapped up the H&M scarf top early this morning (my sister approved while pedaling the Peloton), along with the fringed sequined clutch, below. Also eyeing: the head-to-toe leather situation from Zara, below, including the cardigan draped cape-like (Celine-esque) over the shoulder, but I'd pull it off with this forever-cashmere (yet still affordable) one, plus this stunning satin dress ($150!), this emerald baguette necklace for $50, this fringed Bimba y Lola, and this sexy Cynthia Rowley skirt.
maxime's
Wednesday, November 5
Manhattan's new--and buzziest--private club, Maxime's is every bit as opulent as I’d heard and then some. It radiates old-school elegance and new-world intrigue, yet somehow manages to whisper it all through plush tufted banquettes and hushed dinner conversations. Robin Birley, of 5 Hertford Street fame, founded Maxime’s, dressing it in pure Mayfair gloss—dark wood, bold, clashing prints, art that feels like it’s always been there. It’s rarified air, or a live-action Upper East Side reality show, playing out under dramatically upholstered ceilings. From the moment I stepped inside, it was show time! The dining room flickers with golden light and a hushed hum of connections—familiar faces, double-cheek kisses, quiet hellos over martinis. Sitting there felt strangely cinematic, like the cameras had already been rolling. I half expected a voiceover: “Previously, on The Upper East Side…” Every glance, every raised brow felt faintly scripted—in the best way. My two friends and I were tucked into a corner table with the best view of comings and goings. I wanted to document the little spectacles, the handful of crunchy seeded crackers served/stacked in a proper toast rack and the insulin resistant-friendly chocolate slivers for dessert. But, of course, no photos are allowed. Still, later in the powder room—intricately tiled, painted, impossibly flattering lighting—I couldn’t resist one discreet selfie. I cropped out everything identifying: no artwork, no architectural details, just the mirror, my reflection, and that particular kind of glow you only get in places that, well, don’t allow photos. Plus my belted Zara jacket that garnered head-nodding approvals. Let’s just say I’d like to be invited back! And I'd like to wear this, this, and this.
coat check
Tuesday, November 4
- Just touched down in New York on the red-eye—running on less than three hours of sleep, a little rumpled, and layered in two jackets! (Strategic layering-slash-suitcase-triage. Why pack when you can wear, especially when it's new Doen?) I beelined straight from the airport to my sister's Tribeca apartment to drop my bags, one of my jackets (that's really two because it's reversible, suede on one side and faux fur on the other!), and headed to Interlude for a caffeine jolt and my favorite kind of intel: a real-time, street-level download of what downtowners are wearing when it's high-50s and brisk-but-not-freezing. The verdict? It’s a jackets-not-coats moment—the kind where everyone’s hedging their bets with cropped bombers, oversized blazers (like this!) and barn jackets (but in wool now!). Colored socks peek out between ballet flats and kitten-heeled pumps (the kind of detail that says “I care, but casually”). New York dressing always has this insouciant precision—the art of looking spontaneous, even after you’ve spent 10 minutes deciding which jacket to wear over your other jacket. I like the ones below from Zara, Jamie Haller, Smythe, Cos, Velvet and The Great.
Photos: Jordan Goldberg, Jamie Haller











































