This is a picture of me at a birthday party I attended a few weeks ago in Santa Barbara that was so lavish it almost felt like a wedding. Guests flew in from all over the country to attend, there was a live band and a DJ, and the celebration went on into the wee hours. My long, swishy dress, picked up at Shareen Vintage in downtown LA, even looked appropriate for a wedding. Though I don't have any weddings on the calendar this summer--a first! (I was invited to one in Bali, but, alas, I can't swing it)--I'm sure that many of you are on the wedding circuit, as I am getting emails, asking what to wear. So, I thought I'd put together a post on how to be the best-dressed wedding guest. For an outdoor wedding,